Would You Share This With AI?

Learn to decide what information makes sense to share with an AI tool.

What You'll Practice

This is not about "never share personal information with AI." That's too simplistic.

The real skill is intentional sharing: knowing what information an AI tool actually needs versus what's unnecessary, identifying when you don't have the right to share something, and understanding how privacy works beyond just training.

Three Core Questions

  1. Do I have the right to share this information with this tool?
  2. Does the tool actually need this information?
  3. Can I remove details that aren't necessary?

Quick Framework

NEED
MINIMIZE
CHECK SETTINGS

Share what the tool needs, not everything you have.

Privacy Concerns Beyond Training

Privacy involves more than whether your data trains the AI model. It also includes:

Training is one privacy question, not the only privacy question.

Try It

For each scenario, think about whether and how you'd share information with an AI. Select a choice to see the reasoning.

Scenario 1
You want AI to help rewrite a generic email. No private information is needed.

Lower Concern

If the email contains no personal, confidential, or sensitive information, this is relatively safe. The AI doesn't need identifying details to help. Still worth considering: Are you using a work or school account? Does your organization have policies about AI tool use?

Scenario 2
You want AI to summarize a document containing someone's full name, address, phone number, and account information.

Think First / Don't Share As-Is

This involves other people's private information. Before using AI, ask: Do I have the right to share this? If this is someone's personal document, you probably don't. If you own or manage the information, you can still minimize: Remove names, phone numbers, and account details that aren't essential to what the AI needs to do. Summarize the information instead of pasting the raw document.

Key questions: Is this my information or someone else's? Do I have permission? Can I remove identifying details?

Scenario 3
You want AI to help brainstorm a birthday party theme.

Think First

Brainstorming itself is low-risk. But consider whether you're mentioning a child's name, age, or other identifying details. The AI doesn't need those to help brainstorm. You could instead say "a 10-year-old" rather than a name. Lower Concern if you're only sharing the theme and ages, not identifying details.

Scenario 4
You want AI to improve a work document containing confidential company or client information.

Think First or Don't Share

Workplace policies matter here. Many organizations restrict using external AI tools with confidential information. Before sharing any work document, check your employee handbook or ask your manager. Even if the AI tool is trustworthy, your company may have contractual or legal obligations about sharing confidential data. If policy says no, don't. If policy allows it, you might still minimize by removing names, account numbers, or client details that aren't essential to what the AI is helping with.

Scenario 5
You want help understanding a medical term and are considering pasting an entire medical record into an AI tool.

Think First / Lower Concern

This is not medical advice from us — talk to a doctor about your health. But for the privacy question: A full medical record contains dates, doctor names, diagnoses, and identifying information. The AI doesn't need that to explain a term. Share just the term or specific symptom you're asking about, not the entire record. Example: Instead of pasting a scan report, ask "What does 'hyperplasia' mean?" That gets you the information you need without exposing your full medical history.

Also consider: Does your healthcare provider have policies about AI use? Some healthcare systems restrict external AI access to patient data.

Scenario 6
A classmate privately wrote something in a shared document. You want AI to help improve it. The classmate doesn't know you're considering this.

Think First / Ask Permission

This introduces the question: Do I have the right to share this? Just because something is accessible to you doesn't mean you have permission to share it with others (including AI). If someone else wrote it and shared it only with you, using an AI tool to help improve it involves sharing their work without their knowledge or permission. The respectful approach: Ask first. Most people will say yes, and then you both benefit from the AI's help.

If this were your own collaborative work together, it's different — but still worth checking your classmate is comfortable with it.

The Three Categories Explained

🟢 Lower Concern
The information is minimal, non-sensitive, and the tool doesn't need identifying details. Examples: asking for writing help, brainstorming general ideas, explaining technical terms. Still consider: workplace/school policies, who controls the tool.
🟡 Think First
The tool might be useful, but you should check: Do I have the right to share this? Can I remove unnecessary details? Are there workplace/school/family policies? Does the tool store data? Examples: improving something that involves other people's information, using a work device, sharing something with stored history. Take a moment before deciding.
🔴 Don't Share As-Is
This contains sensitive, confidential, or other people's identifying information that should be removed or handled differently first. Examples: full medical records with names and dates, company secrets, unencrypted passwords or account numbers, someone else's private writing without permission. Remove identifying details or ask permission before using an AI tool.

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